This episode's headline: Terror And Pride; Call For Change; The Lessons of War; Fifties Redux. The guests include ABDULLAH NIBARI, Kuwaiti Opposition Leader; H. ROSS PEROT, Businessman; CORRESPONDENTS: KWAME HOLMAN; CHARLES KRAUSE; ESSAYIST: ANNE TAYLOR FLEMING. Byline: In New York: ROBERT MacNeil; In Washington: JAMES LEHRER