Elissa Samberg

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Title:
Elissa Samberg
Description:
Elissa Samberg, Philadelphia native, was interviewed by Isaac Moore on December 15, 2014 in Baltimore, Maryland. Elissa grew up in Bucks County on the outskirts of Philadelphia in what she describes as âa split world of the Old Country and pre-war Americana.â She lived in her grandmotherâs world in her parents house. Elissa begins the interview describing her family background. Her fatherâs family came to the United States from Russia before World War Two. Her motherâs family is from Romania, Lithuania, and Russia. They also moved to the United States prior to the outbreak of World War Two. Elissaâs discusses how her grandparents on her motherâs side of the family played an important part in her childhood and how she sees this interview as a tribute to them. She tells the story of how her parents met on the boardwalk in New Jersey. Her mother had a job in a candy story and her father would walk in front of the store everyday, until he worked up the nerve to finally ask her out; they were engaged two weeks later. Born in 1956, Elissa describes how she gravitated toward her grandparents while her siblings were embracing modernity in America. She mentions as an example that she didnât know who Bob Dylan was until she was in her forties. When she was ten her mother fell gravely ill and her grandparents raised her. She remembers grocery shopping with her grandparents on Saturdays and going to the fish and meat markets. Growing up in her grandparentsâ world of the synagogue and Yiddish, Elissa discusses how she didnât feel like she fit in with her siblings. Elissa talks about her family home and recalls how it was filled with her many brothers, her grandparents, and always smelled like fried onion. Elissa characterizes the culture of the home as ânaturally Jewishâ and recalls how there were only three ingredients for everything: âa bit of garlic, onion, and salt and pepper.â She recalls how after dinner, the family would have tea and dessert and âeveryone would kibits and kibits (gossip and gossip).â Elissa describes how her grandparents influenced the culture of the home she grew up in, a home steeped in Yiddish culture. She tells many stories of her grandfather meeting her after school everyday and walking her home, sneaking shots of âpeppermint schnappsâ and being in what she terms a âwarm and safe environmentâ with her grandparents. Elissa also describes her childhood synagogue, which was founded by her parents in the 1950s, as the epicenter of her world. It was an old building where Elissa recalls finding comfort in the soothing voices of the congregation praying and chanting. Elissa tells a particular story of how a Mr. Krakower helped her with her Bat Mitzvah and how after the ceremony he shared the seven mistakes she had made in the reading. Toward the end, Elissa discusses feeling strongly connected to Yiddish and the Yiddish world her grandparents lived in and wanting to return to it. For her, the connection to Eastern European Jewish heritage and Yiddish is what defines her Jewish identity. Elissa talks about how the relationship between her and her grandchildren is different from the one between her and her grandparents. She feels that something is lost when grandparents and grandchildren arenât so close. Elissa discusses how she wants to practice Yiddish as she has no place to practice in Pennsylvania. Elissa finishes the interview by reading an eulogy she wrote for her grandmother she had never publicly shared before. To learn more about the Yiddish Book Centerâs Wexler Oral History Project, visit: http://www.yiddishbookcenter.org/tell-your-story Elissa Samberg Oral History Interview, interviewed by Isaac Moore, Yiddish Book Center's Wexler Oral History Project, Baltimore, MD, December 15, 2014. http://archive.org/details/ElissaSamberg15dec2014YiddishBookCenter ([date accessed])
Creator:
Yiddish Book Center (Liz)
Date:
December 15, 2014
Format:
Film/Video
Location:
Yiddish Book Center
Collection (local):
Oral Histories
Subjects:
Advice
Family history
Stories about ancestors
Childhood
Jewish Identity
Yiddish language
Yiddish teaching
Yiddish learning
Yiddish speaker
Other languages
Hebrew
Music
Books
Literature
Holocaust
World War Two
Jewish education
Religion and ritual
Secular
Secularism
Non-religious
Synagogue
Shul
Temple
Family traditions
Jewish holidays
Rosh Hashanah
Rosheshone
Yom Kippor
Yom Kippur
Channukah
Khanukah
Channuka
Khanike
Hannukah
Hanukkah
Old Country
America
Eastern Europe
Yiddish Book Center
Jewish community
Rural
Urban
Shtetl
Assimilation
Shabbat
Shabbes
Sabbath
Shabes
Shabbos
Henry Sapoznik
Elissa Samberg
Philadelphia
Bucks County
Pennsylvania
Link to Item:
https://www.yiddishbookcenter.org/collections/oral-histories/interviews/woh-fi-0000644
Terms of Use:
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Language:
English